Monday, December 24, 2007

The pain of heartache...

Almost Christmas. Almost the end of the year. Almost.

New beginnings. New beginnings are needed. I need new beginnings.

Looking back the year brought great joy into my life personally. It also brought great pain. But that is life is it not? Life presents itself to us with good. It presents us with bad. Without both, without conflicts, without challenges how could we ever grow? How could we ever survive?

Some think it is the good times that make us closer to another. To an extent I believe that to be partially true. But I believe it is the difficult times that are weathered together that make us truly closer. No doubt about it. That is where real growth comes from. Why? Cause conflicts cannot be avoided, not over an extended period of time anyway. Something magical happens when serious conflicts are worked through, talked about. Closeness. Closer. A deeper bond.

If it was easy everyone would do it. Everyone would make it. Not many relationships seem to make it anymore. It must not be easy.

2 comments:

Zootenany Hoodlum said...

Hey. You.

May Christmas be gentle with warm love of family and friends. May your New Year be filled with quiet delight.

Thank you for being on this planet with me. Many has been the long night I would have been lost without you.

ImprovisedDreaming said...

Hey you back. I am speechless. Your words are beautiful as are you. All the best to you in your life and your loved ones during this holiday time.